“Apologies are not meant to change the past, but they are meant to change the future” (Quote by Kevin Hancock)
Instead of saying, “I’m sorry,” with sincere meaning, straight from the heart, we say all kinds of things. We say, “I hear you.” I have heard, “I didn’t mean to…” You have probably heard these words, “Get over it!” There are other expressions put in the place where “I’m sorry” goes. I’m sure you can add to my abbreviated list. And what about the non-verbal statements, the loud sounds of silence that say, “So,” or “So what,” or even “Stop crying over spilled milk,” and possibly even “What’s done is done.” Yes, even our paralanguage is used to avoid a simple “I’m sorry.”
As Christians, figuratively speaking, we can put the key in the ignition of reconciliation, and initiate quick repair of a relationship by saying, “I’m sorry.” And you should mean it! Let me add, this repairing a relationship extends to the highest heights, to heaven, for when we repent, and we are truthfully sorry for our trespass or sin. God deserves to hear our “I’m sorry” expression too! It does not change the past, but it changes the future. You get a new start after He forgives you and cleanses you of all unrighteousness. I heard that somewhere credible.
Use those two words when the situation calls for you to use them. Don’t think them, but say them., and mean them. I’ll be an example. “If I have ever done or said anything to offend you, “I’m sorry.” That was not so hard! Oh, before I close, there is another side of “I’m sorry.” It is called forgiveness. See the closing verse below for more edification. Have a great Thursday. Be blessed!
“Be kind and helpful to one another, tender-hearted [compassionate, understanding], forgiving one another [readily and freely], just as God in Christ also forgave you.’” (Ephesians 4:32 Amplified Bible)
Mark L. King